Monday, April 27, 2009

Reason, Season, Lifetime.....

I hope everyone had a wonderful, eventful and relaxing weekend.. I am sitting up in my room with the window peek opened, hearing the car drive by, airplane up in the sky and the fresh air coming thru my window. Very peaceful and quite...I am recollecting my thoughts, I want to share this special piece with everyone. . . .

People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime. When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! You tend to learn a lot about yourself as a result of having contact with this person. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The questions, doubts, fears..... you sent up have been answered, and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done and you do the same for them. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season - the person that is great for now...

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

After reading my thoughts, what is running thru your head, what do you think of it? Are you here for a reason, season or lifetime?

I truely feel there comes a point in your life when you realize who matters,who never did,who won't anymore and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future..

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